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Ladies Man

Ladies Man

The man in question, 29, grew up in the hoods of New York: abusive father, clingy mother, former athlete, father of a 4-year-old, currently a retail manager. I’ve known him seven years, and while we didn’t date, we were good friends. After a number of years apart, we reconnected six months ago. At first, we […]

Narcissa

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I was young and came from a strict family who didn’t allow boyfriends before marriage. My family found out I was seeing someone only after they discovered I was five months pregnant. I moved out, had my daughter, got married and bought a house. My husband is a good person. He works hard for us. […]

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My Marriage Made Me Do It

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My Marriage Made Me Do It

Ask someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this: “I have a lousy marriage. My marriage is dead. There is no intimacy, no sex, and no excitement. The love is gone. We’ve grown apart. I can’t stand the marriage. There was nothing happening in the marriage and […]

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10 Ways To Calm Your Feelings

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When you find out about the affair, the first few hours, days and weeks can be emotionally wrenching to say the least. Or, if someone you deeply care about begins “pulling away” you may also experience intense feelings. Read through this list and pick out a couple things you can do to help yourself during […]

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Difference Of A Rage And Revenge Affair

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The fifth affair I outline in my book, “Break Free From The Affair” is called: “I Want to Get Back at Him/Her.” This is the revenge affair. It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in infidelity. It is less a movement toward the other […]

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