Have you ever noticed this?

Whenever a guy is with an attractive woman, he would naturally want to attract her attention. Nothing new, right?

You will then notice, if she’s really a ‘hot’ one, the guy will not only want to attract her attention, but he’ll also want to try to impress her in whatever way he can.

He might be thinking that he wants to be different from the other guys. And what will he do? Well, even though his mindset is right, I would say that most likely, without him realizing it, he won’t he will do the obvious.

He’ll be nervous as hell ie. he will naturally tend to talk faster, more abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when he’s with her.

Notice that some guys will even have their own lil’ ‘interview’ thing going on in their head.

They’ll have sort of like these pre-set questions that they’ll be ever so ready to pound the girl with; lame questions ie. “how old are you,” “where are you from”, “what do you like doing in your free time,” “how’s is your mom doing,”how’s your dad doing?”…

Know what I’m talking about?

They’ll just keep asking these questions non-stop thinking that this will actually keep the conversation going but honestly, don’t you think an attractive woman gets asked the same ‘ol questions all the time?

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Here’s the mindset you should have if you really want to be successful when it comes to dating and meeting women.

Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you about how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!

It’s not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly says that all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their life, often times they’re actually lying to themselves — without them even realizing it!

It’s true!

Seriously.

In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but in real life, especially more so if you really want to be able be with as many women as possible in your lifetime – the nice guy route will get you nowhere and you’ll end up getting nothing but rejections.

I’m not going to go into the details on the ‘why’ part of it because most of you might have already know about it.

But what I AM going to talk about today is why do women, especially attractive ones can act rather ‘bitchy’ and rude sometimes and how you can effectively pick up one – with ease.

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Are you looking to find your Mr. Right? Your perfect partner? A man that you’ll love passionately, forever, and who’ll love you back even more?

Then there are 3 things you must know or must do in order to make sure you get him.

1. Get Clear on Who He Is

Let me ask you this. If you don’t know… what kind of personality he must have, what behavioural characteristics he must possess, what he must value in life, the keys to how he looks in order to be s*xually attractive, what do you think your chances are that you’re going to find him?

Poor? Very Slim? Worse than that?!

If there’s a key to success in anything (and let’s face it you know this already) it’s getting clear on your goal. Sound’s a bit clinical when talking about future husband material, but it’s a universal rule. If you don’t know what your goal is in anything you do, you seriously damage your chances of getting it.

And we’re not talking about the `dark hair, over 6 foot, sensitive, listens to me, loves to go shopping’ list. What we’re talking about here is identifying your most important emotional needs. The things that when they are met will make you feel `naturally’ loved for ever by your partner.

Also you must know the behavioural patterns that a man has to exhibit to make you feel loved, cared for and passionate. And just as importantly the ones that turn you off big time. Things like – the level of physical affection you require, whether or not he buys you gifts regularly and maybe even the fact that he likes spending time with your family.

You also need to know what you value in life in order to match sufficiently at that level too. If you demand adventure in your life to stay excited then you don’t want to be wasting valuable time with a guy who, you eventually discover, gets his biggest kicks watching Saturday’s match from the couch.

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Before I tell you what it is (I’m such a tease!) there’s one very important thing you must know…

More important than knowing the flirting sign?!

Turning the knowledge of what the flirting sign is into something you can use, easily, naturally and on an ongoing basis. That’s what’s more important than actually knowing what the flirting sign is.

Some of what we learn only needs to enter our heads to be useful to us. They’re simply pieces of information. Something that we can recall and put to use in a future scenario.

However flirting is a skill. And skills need more than just the knowledge in our head. So not only am I going to tell you what the flirting sign is, I’m going to give you a practical exercise to actually turn this knowledge into something that you will use to benefit you.

So once you’ve read what the number 1 sign is, keep reading. Because more important than knowing what the sign is, is being able to use it. And you’ll only do that properly if you follow the exercise.

So, enough of the delays, the number 1 flirting sign is…

The hair flip!

Yup, that’s it. Numero Uno. The most often used flirting sign in the scientific study.

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You’re walking down the street somewhere, or shopping at a mall, or sitting at a restaurant or bar, and then you see her. That beautiful woman you’ve had your eye on since who knows when. You feel your heart racing, your pulse pick up, your eyes beginning to widen. You approach her and attempt to say something witty, but you become tongue-tied. Eventually, you find the words to say and gush over her appearance, telling her how beautiful she is, how you would like to get to know her, etc. She gives you a half-interested look, says thank you, and politely brushes you off. You may wonder to yourself, why did she just blow me off so rudely like that?

For most attractive women, this scenario is a common occurence. Men continually come on them every day, even when they are not consciously doing so. Most people in our society have been conditioned since birth that attractive people are special and deserve to be treated differently from your average person. Therefore, men usually attempt to go out of their way to attract beautiful women in extravagant ways, like buying flashy clothes, jewellery, fancy cars, or other expensive gadgets, or they spend hours in the gym working on their bodies so they can attract that really gorgeous female. For some of these men, it may initially attract these women, but the women later become disenchanted with these antics and usually end up dumping these same men.

So why do beautiful women act so rude to most men? And is there any chance for an average-looking guy to go out with a stunningly beautiful woman?

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