Those Little Gestures

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Certain subtle bodily gestures carry hidden meanings in them. You need to be especially mindful of them when attending singelfester or singles events. Women convey the more intimate messages through minute physical gestures. To be successful in the dating scene you must be able to efficiently decipher them. This is more pronounced in single events where women put out subtle messages in their body language which the men have to interpret. Here are four signs to help you out at singelfester and have an edge over your competition—

Open/Crossed Leg Posture – The cross legged sitting posture is a defensive one. It generally translates into, “I’m undecided” or “I don’t like being argued with”, or quite simply, “Go away!” But if the legs are in a relaxed or open position then it means, “I’m open minded and interested.” She will welcome new concepts and is up for an interesting chat.

Contact of the Eyes – Say you are looking at a woman but she keeps avoiding eye contact and looking everywhere and at everyone but not at you. This happens often at singelfester and it is not a good sign. She is not interested. However, if she makes eye contact for a second, looks down and smiles then it means she is shy but also interested in you. If there are frequent glances then you can as simply as walk up to her and ask her out.

Leaning Backward/Forward – Pay attention to the torso. At singelevenemang (singles parties), if a woman is leaning towards you then it is a sign of interest and that you have her attention. She will lean backward to convey her disinterest or that you are too close for comfort.

The Small Gesture – There are several small gestures too. If you see that she has her arms crossed throughout at a venue of singelevenemang then she is annoyed or irritated. If she tosses her hair frequently then she is flirty. If her hands, feet or shoulders are in your direction, then she is mildly interested in you. Look for such signs.

Keep it in mind that a woman’s bodily expressions speak volumes. Hidden meanings are conveyed through the smallest of expressions at singelevenemang—if you miss them then you will be the loser. Be sure to catch these gestures as they fall as a successful interpretation is all that will take for you to get a date.

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